When I introduce women who can handle it to the ladder theory the only aspect most tend to like is the concept of the intellectual whore. They think it's an insightful concept and they are attracted to it to the point where they want to be one. I've heard many females say that's a hole in the ladder theory, that they are intellectual whores. Then in response I highly emphasize how rare it is for a woman to be an intellectual whore. They contest and I ask them to give me the situations details and here's an example of a real situation a chick gave me to prove she was an intellectual whore:
CHICK:He just calls me and vents all his shit onto me, I am just a dumping ground for all his problems. He doesn't care about me or what I think or anything, he just uses me to talk to and leaves afterwards.
ME: Would he fuck you?
CHICK: Well...yeah, he's asked me several times but I say no.
ME: Women don't want to fuck their intellectual whores that defeats the whole point. He's closer to being your intellectual whore then you are to being his but neither of you are really. He's just a guy who wanted to fuck you that couldn't that made the best of the situation by finding a chick to bitch to. Rather smart of him.
Girls have often thought of a half assed situation like that quickly to prove their intellectual whoredom, that's how eager they are to be that. And not only that but to seem to be that to other people. I wondered "what makes it so attractive?" But now I realize it's symmetry:
Women are very attracted to the concept of intellectual whore, they are attracted to it to the point where they want to be it, think about it, women are rarely intellectual whores and they'd love to be....just like guys are very attracted to the concept of a whore to the point where they want to be one,think about it, men are rarely whores and they'd love to be....it's easy for women to be whores and they want to be intellectual whores....it's easy for men to be intellectual whores and they want to be whores.....perfect symmetry..the ladder theory has perfect symetry.
Except for one detail that is not a fault in the theory:
This same woman who gave me the above scenario said:
"Well if the only 3 situations in which a guy wouldn't do a chick is
1.he doesn't find her attractive
2.he's gay
3.he has somebody much higher than the ladder
then isn't the only 3 reasons a girl wouldn't do a guy
1.she doesn't find him attractive
2.she's gay
3.she has somebody much higher on the ladder ? "
I said "No,
4.Societal constraint"
Women have societal constraint to hold them back from sex while men have societal pressure which is the exact opposite of a deterrent or cause of aversion. Society constantly gives reasons for men to have more sex while pressuring the exact opposite of women.
In our society a mans character is defined by his sexual prowess while a womans is defined by her sexual resistance.
This is not how it is supposed to be as this sets up 2 opposing goals for on species that should be working to advance society.
There are many exceptions, people who think for themselves, but even those usually had a period of time in which they operated under society's skewed code. Following society's conflicting ideals doesn't mean one is submissive as one is usually gradually cultivated into such views gradually as opposed to one day conforming to them.
Societal constraint is a huge fucking deal because that's the whole kind of thing that leads to anti-slut-defenses(see www.fastseduction.com/ for more on this term and what it means) and girls being called whores while guys are pimps for the same shit....all that shit holds girls back from sexual activity thus fucking up the symetry,while many people would like to say men cause this by their oppression of women let's look at another example situation:
Guy to a crowd of guy friends: I laid 3 chicks last night.
Guy friends: Yeah or Right on or Good Job, either way it's words of encouragement.
Guy to a crowd of chick friends: I laid 3 chicks last night.
Chick friends: Pig! or something discouraging along those lines
Girl to a crowd of guy friends:I laid 3 guys last night
Guy friends: Slut! or something discouraging along those lines because it wasn't them
Girl to a crowd of chick friends:I laid 3 guys last night
Chick friends: Slut! or something discouraging along those lines
Who fucked up the symmetry? Chicks for not encouraging and supporting their own.
Now i know there are exceptions
there are guys out there who would've discouraged their guy friends from the 3 lays.
there guys out there who would have encouraged or supported a chick friend for the 3 lays.
There are chicks out there who would have supported and or encouraged the 3 lays but in general typically speaking, there is symetry in that situation except for in general women discouraging other from sexual activity....so IN GENERAL (I know not all) women fuck up the symetry thus creating a need for a ladder theory.
-Tristan Acker